Shekinah reveals that Sarper is still abusive behind closed doors, making her feel unhappy and unappreciated

 Shekinah Garner and Sarper Guven's relationship, as seen on 90 Day Fiancé The Other Way and season 11 of the show, has been a rollercoaster of toxicity and manipulation, eerily mirroring the dynamic between Rob and Sophie. 

Both couples seemed to prolong their relationships, not out of love or commitment, but to secure more screen time on the show and its spin-offs. This decision to stay together for the cameras only deepened the cracks in their already fragile bonds. Instead of addressing their issues or parting ways before things spiraled further, they chose to endure the chaos, leading to even more damaging interactions. For Shekinah and Sarper, this meant navigating a relationship riddled with control, blame, and emotional neglect, all while maintaining a facade for the audience.

Shekinah's experience has been strikingly similar to Sophie's, particularly in how public perception shifted over time. Initially, fans of the show were quick to criticize Sarper for his abusive and misogynistic behavior, but as the narrative unfolded, he somehow managed to win their favor. This left Shekinah in a vulnerable position, as viewers began to turn against her, mocking her voice and appearance rather than holding Sarper accountable for his actions. The parallels to Sophie's journey are undeniable, as both women faced the brunt of public scrutiny while their partners were inexplicably celebrated. This shift in fan sentiment has understandably left Shekinah feeling frustrated and jealous as she watches Sarper bask in newfound admiration while she continues to be vilified.

In an attempt to reveal the truth about Sarper's behavior behind closed doors, Shekinah recently took to Instagram to share a heartfelt and candid post. 

Shekinah detailed the emotional toll of their relationship, describing how Sarper often dismissed her opinions, ignored her when she was unwell, and blamed her for their problems. Shekinah also shared how Sarper's controlling nature extended to threats about her appearance, warning her that he would leave if she didn't meet his standards. These revelations paint a picture of a deeply toxic relationship that should have ended long ago rather than being dragged out for the sake of television.